Stoicism at WorkA Stoic Workweek

Day 51

Report it, don't rate it

Say what they did. Skip the verdict on how.

Yesterday you caught yourself inventing motives. Today, catch a quieter version: the verdict that rides in on the back of a plain fact.

Someone on the crew finishes a job fast. Sloppy, you think, before you've checked the work. A nurse charts a patient in half the usual time and a colleague decides she's cutting corners. A coworker answers an email in three words and you file it under rude. The speed is real. The shortness is real. The judgment you stapled to it is not.

Epictetus handed his students a tiny discipline for exactly this. "Doth any one bathe in a mighty little time? Do not say, that he doth it ill; but, in a mighty little time" (Enchiridion 45, Carter). Report the observable. Withhold the rating. Fast might mean careless, or it might mean skilled, or rushed by something you can't see. You don't yet know, so don't yet say.

The move this week keeps narrowing to the same point: stay with what's visible, and notice the instant your mind upgrades a fact into a flaw. The job got done quickly. That's the whole report.

Today

Once today, when you start to judge how someone did something, restate it as the plain fact — what happened, no rating attached.